Tag: Healthy Risk-Taking

  • Keepy Uppy

    In Keepy Uppy, Bluey dives, Bingo scrambles, Bandit brings the chaos, and Lucky’s dad pulls a hammy. It’s a reminder to show up fully in the moment, encourage your kids to give their all, and that it’s better to make things too fun than to sit out on your phone.

    Learn

    Lucky’s Dad isn’t even playing at first. He’s just drinking coffee in his yard. Then the balloon comes over the fence.

    Pat: “Mine! Mine!”

    Watch what happens – he drops everything, dives, spills his coffee, lunges one more time:

    Pat: “Oh! I’ve done me hammy!”

    He threw his whole body into keeping a balloon off the grass. That’s what kids teach you to do. They force you to be fully present when the moment shows up. Not tomorrow. Not when you’re “ready.” Right now.

    Most people wait for the perfect moment to go all-in. Kids don’t let you wait. They train you to show up completely when opportunity strikes, even if it costs you your hammy.


    Teach

    Kids naturally give everything to things that don’t matter.

    Bluey: “I’ll save you, Bingo!”
    Bandit: “Dear child, embrace your father.”
    Bluey: “Let go!”

    They’re screaming, diving, desperate to keep a balloon in the air. They CARE. Deeply. About something completely ridiculous.

    That’s the thing you’re protecting. Most adults lose the ability to care about “pointless” things. Your job isn’t teaching kids to try harder – they already do that naturally. Your job is making sure life doesn’t beat it out of them.


    Lead

    Bandit makes it harder and harder. Newspaper. Fan. Leaf blower. Toys everywhere. Umbrella. Then the balloon pops.

    Bandit: “Oh. Did I make that a little too fun?”
    Bluey: “Yeah, you did.”
    Bandit: “Sorry, squirts. It’s a hard one to get right.”

    Pause. Then:

    Bluey: “It was pretty fun, though.”

    Here’s what kids teach you: The courage to risk making things TOO fun. Most people play it safe. They never go too far because they’re scared of ruining it.

    Kids force you to practice that edge – pushing right up to the line, sometimes past it. That skill – knowing how far you can push before it breaks – only comes from breaking it a few times. Kids give you permission to find that line.